Friday 16 October 2009

Get Laid Now! The Man's Guide to Picking Up Girls and Casual Sex

Get Laid Now! The Man's Guide to Picking Up Women and Casual Sex





It's true that everyone wants to get laid. The only trouble is that it's not as easy as most people would like. This book is going to show you that the secret of getting laid is not in finding some sort of mystic mojo that will put you through to the next level. The secret is that it's all up to you. Along with the basic knowledge of knowing where to look for easy, available women, the secret mainly lies in how a person presents himself when he finds himself in the right place at the right time. If you're looking for a serious relationship, this is not necessarily the book for you. This book is about enabling you to get down and dirty. It's about helping you achieve that one thing that keeps eluding you in life. This book is for the guys who don't want to bother with wining and dining. What you're going to learn might be considered by some to be somewhat sleazy and, honestly, it is. But that's the price you have to pay when you're out to have a good time. If you need some help getting laid laid, this book can put you on the right track.


Get Laid Now! The Man's Guide to Picking Up Women and Casual Sex

The System: How to Pull Girls - Get Laid TODAY

The System: How to Get Laid TODAY!





This book offers a unique approach to getting laid. Instead of giving generic rules and macho advice about dating and women. This book gives specific step-by-step instructions on how to get laid the same day you meet the girl. The author tells EXACTLY: How to never get rejected again; How to tell the difference between a girl that is ready for sex NOW versus one that is just a tease; How to approach girls; What to say to them and how to say it to them; Where to meet them and where not to meet them; Exactly when to make the final move and what to do; How to be a Player and how to always have your choice of girls to choose from. The author does not give generic examples of picking up girls. He gives specific examples of how he has used the System to pick up girls in over 20 countries on five continents. The book takes you inside the mind of a Master Player. After reading this book you will never look at dating women the same again.


From the Author

If you did not have sex last night and it was not by choice, you NEED to read this book.

If you are tired of being rejected, you NEED this book.

If you are in a relationship that you hate or if you just want to get laid, this is the perfect book for you.

The only days I don't have sex are the days that I CHOOSE not to have sex. That's Personal Power. That's the SYSTEM!

The System: How to Get Laid TODAY!
How to Pull Girls: An Insider Guide to Success with Women

Kathy Lette

Animal magnetism - how to get the magnetism and not just the animal!


Product Description

The ultimate pulling tool kit. You've got loads of mates. You're happy that size matters, you're successful and funny. Girls love you. But you're still single. Meanwhile, you've got a mate that always pulls, even though he's nothing special. Ever wondered what the secret of his success is? Get the inside line on how to charm girls from a girl. Find out what works. Learn the turn-ons and the turn-offs. Discover ways to pull girls that you like when you want. Get all the tips on how to: *Spot when a girl fancies you *Convert body language into pulling power *Chat up girls without the usual tired old lines *Get girls to fancy you *Vary your approach for different places, such as shops, bars and clubs. How to Pull Girls is your essential insider's guide to successful pulling. Develop your own weapons of mass seduction and charm the pants off every girl every time.



How to Pull Girls: An Insider Guide to Success with Women

Thursday 15 October 2009

How to Become an Alpha Male

How to Become an Alpha Male





Dubbed "The lazy man's way to easy success with 20 or more women a month," How to Become an Alpha Male is the no-risk, never-fail blueprint on how to 'magnetically' attract an endless flow of beautiful women to you...without ever having to play their games or deal with rejection. Sold as an ebook at AlphaMaleSystem.com, John Alexander's guide is now available, for the first time ever, as a hardcopy book. You see, once you have these secrets all the 'work' of meeting women will be done for you...automatically! You can just 'flip on' your magnetic powers of attraction...so to speak...and instantly bring sex, romance and more roaring into your life! Why does the Alpha Male Method work so well? Because it's based on the same hush-hush psychological tactics advertisers have used for centuries to get filthy rich. They work for anyone, anywhere and at any time (no matter how desperate your situation is right now).

How to Become an Alpha Male

Wednesday 14 October 2009

Archos AV400 20GB MP3/MP4 Player/Recorder with Video Cradle

Archos AV400 20GB MP3/MP4 Player/Recorder with Video Cradle





Geared towards families, TV enthusiasts and gadget lovers, the Pocket Video Recorder AV400 experience starts in the living room where you can record television shows and movies directly from a TV, VCR, or cable/satellite receiver with a convenient one-time set-up TV Cradle. At the same time, the AV400 takes personal entertainment enjoyment far beyond the living room, where consumers can watch videos and view photos on a large colour LCD screen, listen to and record music, and transfer photos from a digital camera and data files from a PC or Macintosh.

The Pocket Video Recorder AV400 was designed with consumer ease of use in mind and presents many new features unseen in a portable video player, including a sleek and small design, 20-gigabyte to 100-gigabyte hard disk capacity, removable battery for extended life (20-gigabyte version), one-time set-up TV Cradle, an external speaker for enjoying music and video without headphones, best video playback quality 1 , and a built-in Compact Flash reader for transferring photos directly from digital cameras. These new features make the AV400 a uniquely powerful device, yet slim, light and easy to use.

Portable Entertainment Starts with the Pocket Digital Video Recorder
To be placed on or near the TV set, the TV Cradle is a docking station for the AV400 that allows you to record directly from a TV, VCR or cable/satellite tuner. Once the TV Cradle is connected to the TV, VCR or cable/satellite receiver for the first time, you will not have to reconnect the cables again, just dock the AV400 and you are ready to record or view your files on the TV. The AV400 Recording Scheduler directly controls the tuner inside your VCR or cable/satellite receiver to automatically adjust the channel and record based on the time and duration of the schedule. Further, the AV400 Scheduler will synchronize with Yahoo TV Guide (where available) from the Internet so you can prepare your recordings for the week or month in advance.

Far More than a Portable Music Player with Video, Photos, Music and More
The new Pocket Video Recorder AV400 allows you to:

Record and Play Back Video: Record between 80 and up to 400 hours of TV programs and video content, or between 40 and up to 200 2 full-length movies in MPEG-4 video, at DVD quality and with CD quality stereo sound. Listen with a built-in speaker or headphones.

Schedule Video Recording: Program recordings using the Recording Scheduler, which directly controls the VCR or set-top box tuner to schedule and automatically record TV programming.

Enjoy a Large, Colour LCD Screen: The AV400 features a high-resolution, 3.5-inch or 3.8- inch colour LCD screen 3 or view directly on a TV, PC or other video output device.

Record and Listen to Music: The newly designed music player lets you record between 300 and up to 1500 3 hours of music, with playback in MP3, WMA or WAV formats using a built-in speaker or headphones. The ARCHOS ARClibrary software automatically tags tracks for easy viewing and organization.

Store and Manage Photos: Store and view hundreds of thousands 3 of JPEG photos on the AV400, and view as a slide show. Instantly transfer photos from computers using USB 2.0 or from memory cards using the built-in CompactFlash" reader. The Pocket Video Recorder AV400 can also support SD, MMC, SmartMedia", Memory Stick ® or Memory Stick Pro thanks to the optional 4-in adapter.


Technical Details

  • Product Description: Archos AV420 Pocket Video Recorder - digital AV recorder
  • Device Type: Digital AV recorder
  • Dimensions (WxDxH): 12.5 cm x 7.8 cm x 2 cm
  • Weight: 280 g
  • Key Features: Digital audio player, voice recorder, digital audio recorder, digital photo viewer, external HDD function, memory card reader, video capture from external source, digital video player
  • Hard Drive: 20 GB
  • Flash Memory Cards Supported: CompactFlash Card type I
  • Display Type: 3.5" LCD
  • Supported Still Images Formats: BMP, JPEG
  • Supported Audio Formats: WAV, WMA, MP3
  • Video Playback Formats: MPEG-4 SP, XviD, DivX 5.0, DivX 4.0
  • Video Capture Formats: MPEG-4 SP
  • External Control Devices: Remote control
  • PC Interfaces: Hi-Speed USB
  • Battery: Internal rechargeable - Lithium Ion
  • Included Accessories: AC adapter, remote control

Box Contents

  • AV 400
  • TV Cradle with audio/video connections & SCART adapters for European version
  • Remote Control with 2 AA batteries
  • Protective case
  • USB 2.0 cable
  • Stereo headphone
  • Manual
  • AC adapter/charger with US/UK/EU plug
  • Archos AV400 20GB MP3/MP4 Player/Recorder with Video Cradle

    Monday 12 October 2009

    Gents 6.00 Carat D/VS2 Round Certified Diamond Solitaire Stud Earrings in 18ct Solid White Gold

    Gents 6.00 Carat D/VS2 Round Certified Diamond Solitaire Stud Earrings in 18ct Solid White Gold




    The diamonds have a total carat weight of 6.00 Carat , or 3.00 Carat each, and have been graded as D-Colour VS2-Clarity.The diamonds are set in 18ct Solid White Gold on a Bezel Setting.

    This item has been appraised at £307200 and serves for insurance purposes. The appraisal value of £307200 is the estimated price you would have to pay for an item of the same specifications on the high street.

    Read below to learn about this diamond's quality:

    D Colour: This diamond has no tint of colour, as D is absolutely colourless and the highest colour grade.

    VS2 Clarity: This diamond has a clarity grade of very slightly included to the second degree. Diamonds with this clarity grade have small inclusions that are visible with some difficulty under 10 power magnification, and are almost never visible to the unaided eye.

    Ideal Cut: This diamond is cut to extremely exacting proportions of depth, diameter, and angles that allows for maximum brilliance, dispersion and scintillation.

    HOW WILL MY EARRINGS ARRIVE?
    Your earrings will be packed securely by our professional team in an elegant gift box and will be beautifully gift wrapped for presentation unless you request differently.
    The earrings will arrive in a larger white box accompanied by all the relevant documents and will be insured door to door, so it's important that you make arrangements for someone to be at the location to sign for the package.

    NOT CONVINCED YET?
    Order it today and try it from the comfort of your own home.
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    Gents 6.00 Carat D/VS2 Round Certified Diamond Solitaire Stud Earrings in 18ct Solid White Gold

    Thursday 8 October 2009

    eBay Motors the Smart Way - Selling and Buying Cars, Trucks, Motorcycles,Boats, Parts, Accessories, and Much More on the Web's #1 Auction Site:

    eBay Motors the Smart Way - Selling and Buying Cars, Trucks, Motorcycles,Boats, Parts, Accessories, and Much More on the Web's #1 Auction Site: ... Much More on the Web's Number 1 Auction Site




    In 2002, 300,000 vehicles with a total value of three billion dollars were sold on one Web site - Ebay. This is a practical reference for all buyers and sellers.

    About the Author
    Sinclair is the author of eBay Business the Smart Way (0-8144-7202-8) and eBay the Smart Way (0-8144-7204-4). Spillane has successfully sold vehicles and collectibles on eBay, and has been recognized as one of the site's highest-volume sellers.

    Whether you're a buyer, seller, or dealer, eBay Motors is an exciting new marketplace for vehicles where you can save money and make money. More Details ==>>

    eBay Motors the Smart Way - Selling and Buying Cars, Trucks, Motorcycles,Boats, Parts, Accessories, and Much More on the Web's #1 Auction Site: ... Much More on the Web's Number 1 Auction Site

    Sunday 4 October 2009

    Online Casino Expert ‘Breaks the Rules’ and cashes out £20,000 in casino bonuses in a month!

    I came across a new site the other day,

    ==>>> http://www.Cashcasino.co.uk

    now as you may know I am very sceptical when it comes to sites that claim to be able to beat roulette or blackjack. But I thought I would read it anyway and see what new piece of rubbish was out, claiming to always beat the house etc.

    To my surprise this guy actually admits that it is not possible to beat roulette or blackjack! This was different, I was intrigued and had to find out…

    After some persuading I managed to get an interview with the Author Dan Soulsby, I got him on the phone and set about asking what the H*ll this was all about…

    So, Dan, what is all the buzz about??

    Hi, Well, This is the very first system ever to give you a superb chance of getting a massive tax free wind fall with close to ZERO risk.

    That’s a bold statement, but surely you admit yourself that you can't beat a casino?

    Yes, you are completely right! ...In the long term, you cannot beat a casino, online or other wise.

    What this system does is use withdrawable online casino bonuses to give you an edge over the casino of 80%, once you have played this bonus and used this edge you move on to the next casino and do the same thing all over again if you want!

    Dan, this can't be right, casinos would lose loads of money ........wouldn't they??

    Think again, there is massive competition among online casinos and they know that the vast majority of people who join will not use optimised (perfect) betting systems for playing the games.

    They know that the huge majority will continue to bet at the casino with no bonus, and the casino will make profit even if 1000 people all started doing www.Cashcasino.co.uk today.

    You can make serious profits AND the casino will make serious profits from all the people happily throwing their money away on slots and random betting without using any bonuses.

    You will slip into the casino among the 100's already playing there and play casino games the statistically perfect way giving you an 80% edge over the casino!

    This sounds hard, is it?

    Nope, you will need to be able to read, write and count. You do not need to know how to play blackjack or roulette, everything is explained in plain English in my unique book.

    You will not need to use a calculator, or have any special skills.

    You should definitely practice in what the casinos call 'Fun / Practice mode', this is where you can practice games and systems without betting a penny, so you know how easy it is before you start doing it with your bonuses.

    What if you have already got all the bonuses from online casinos?

    We have found 21 online casinos that are completely trustworthy, large names, who will give you WITHDRAWABLE bonuses if you live in the UK, Europe, Australia or Canada - over £2000 in withdawable bonus, and then over £500 a month.

    The withdrawals are also fast, usually 2 - 5 working days.

    I hope that clears up some of the questions I have been getting, if you join me today and use system a) then you will have £80 profit in just a few hours (more on this in the book).

    If you choose system b) you may not make any money but you certainly will not lose any and you give yourself a great chance of getting £1000's in your bank by next weekend.

    It is quite literally Win - Win, the only people who don't win are those betting randomly in the casino... and you will be doing anything but betting randomly.

    Ok, Sounds good, any comment’s from buys of the system, I mean this system only came out this month right? Let’s get down to how much people are rinsing the casinos for please.

    Ok, no problem, like you say this system has only just been released but, yes the emails are already flooding in, here is a small sample, if that helps.

    "...£4116 up and I'm only on my second casino."
    Sid Mycock, London, UK

    "...made over £1000 tonight..."
    Kim Stratton, Derbishire, UK

    "...started playing and made £900 in 15 minutes..."
    Sammy Miller, Essex, UK

    "...best guide I've brought, got to £416 tonight."
    Damien Jones, Cardiff, UK

    Right, you’ve got me, where do I get hold of this?

    Just get on down to==>>> http://www.Cashcasino.co.uk for more information.

    Wednesday 23 September 2009

    Ferrari Cx60 26" Full Suspension Mountain Bike Ferrari Medium

    Ferrari Cx60 26" Full Suspension Mountain Bike Ferrari Medium




    Product Features

    • Ferrari MTB Model
    • 18.5" Hydroformed aluminium frame
    • Rock Shox suspension system
    • Suntour Epicon forks
    • Shimano LX derailleur's and shifters
    • Shimano hydraulic disc Deore brakes
    • Continental Explorer Pro 26" Tyres
    • Shimano Deore shifters and derailleur's
    • Ferrari Sport Edition microfibre saddle
    • Wellgo pedals
    • Double density grips
    • Colour: Ferrari Red
    • Suitable inside leg measurement from 71cm to 74cm

    Ferrari Cx60 26" Full Suspension Mountain Bike Ferrari Large

    Saturday 19 September 2009

    How to Cheat at Everything: A Con Man Reveals the Secrets of the Esoteric Trade of Cheating, Scams, and Hustles

    How to Cheat at Everything: A Con Man Reveals the Secrets of the Esoteric Trade of Cheating, Scams, and Hustles





    Synopsis
    Gambling is more popular than ever, with multi-million dollar poker tournaments on television, gambling themed movies like Rounders gaining in popularity, and casinos opening in just about every state of the U. S. How to Cheat at Everything is a roller-coaster ride through bar bets, street hustles, carnivals, Internet fraud, big and small cons, card and dice games and more. You'll even find the exact frauds that the NYPD regard as the most common and dangerous today, and learn top tips on how to avoid each one. This inside information comes from Lovell's lifetime of experience in the field, along with additional information from both sides of the law. Not just a "here's how the con works" book; this guides you through the set up, the talk, the sell, everything about the con, and how you can be suckered into one. If you think that you can't be conned; then you are already halfway to being so! There is no preaching here, just a fun ripping ride through a world so few know about. You'll meet wild, eccentric and larcenous characters and you'll learn how they work their money-making deeds, all without having to risk a penny of your own money.
    For More Details Click Here ==>> How to Cheat at Everything: A Con Man Reveals the Secrets of the Esoteric Trade of Cheating, Scams, and Hustles

    Tuesday 15 September 2009

    FOUR STATION HOME GYM WITH 200lb/90kg PLATES MULTIGYM

    FOUR STATION HOME GYM WITH 200lb/90kg PLATES MULTIGYM





    FOUR STATION HOME GYM WITH 200lb/90kg PLATES MULTIGYM /DELIVERY-UK MAINLAND ONLY

    Product Features


    Why pay monthly gym membership fees when you can have your own multi gym at home.The GM1005B Home Gym is Constructed of Heavy Duty 12 Gauge Steel and Premium Components such as: box stitched corners and seems eliminating folds and pad stress, industrial sealed ball bearings at Pivot Points on the BenchThe GM1005B Home Gym is designed to provide a full Range of Motion on every Exercise. Heavy Rugged Steel Construction 200lbs plates weight and great quality make the GM1005B a Best Buy Home Gym.Four workout stations for every aspect of your workout.Ideal for your Garage or large room.Gym quality heavy duty 4-way multi gym.
    FOUR STATION HOME GYM WITH 200lb/90kg PLATES MULTIGYM /DELIVERY-UK MAINLAND ONLY

    Monday 14 September 2009

    Bodi-Tek Elite 3 - Total Body Muscle Building and Strength Training



    Bodi-Tek Elite 3 - Total Body Muscle Building and Strength Training



    The Bodi-Tek Sports Elite 3 is the most powerful and versatile EMS unit on the market offering the user not only 6 pre-set programs, but also two completely adjustable ones. The Bodi-Tek Sports Elite range has a very strong history and has been used by top athletes.

    The Bodi-Tek Sports Elite 3 uses different faradic wavelengths in each program in order to ensure that you get the best results, fast.

    To use, simply attach the pads to the relevant muscle group - Abs, triceps, biceps, quads and switch on the unit. A tingling sensation will be felt followed by a series of powerful contractions as tiny electronic pulses replicate the signals sent by the brain to the nerves, causing the muscles to work exactly as they do during strenuous exercise.

    In just a few weeks Bodi-Tek Sports Elite 3 will make a substantial difference to the way you look and feel. The pads must not be placed over recent scar tissue, varicose veins, enlarged moles or areas of injury/recent wounds. Not suitable for people who suffer from heart disorders, diabetes, epilepsy, multiple sclerosis or for pregnant women.

    Box Contents

  • 1 x Elite 3 control unit
  • 1 x Muliple pads
  • 1 x Conductive gel
  • 1 x Batteries included
  • 1 x Carry case
  • 1 x Free Ab toning belt
  • 1 x Full instructions
  • Bodi-Tek Elite 3 - Total Body Muscle Building and Strength Training - White

    Saturday 12 September 2009

    Breitling Aerospace 613 strap

    Breitling Aerospace 613 strap



    Product Specifications
    Watch Information
    Brand:Breitling
    Part number:613 strap - 613 strap
    Crystal material:Scratch Resistant Sapphire
    Clasp:Hidden Folding Clasp
    Case Diameter:40 millimetres
    Dial Colour:Mother of Pearl
    Bezel function:Fixed
    Movement:Quartz
    Water Resistant Depth:50 metres
    Warranty type:Seller

    Breitling Aerospace 613 strap

    Friday 11 September 2009

    The Natural Art of Seduction: Secrets of Success With Women




    Product Description
    Richard La Ruina, the ultimate pick-up artist, shares his infallible technique for men to become irresistible to the opposite sex. At the age of 21, Richard had never kissed a girl. Now he is considered Europe's Greatest Seducer, dating models, successful business women, and celebrities. This book tells the inspirational story of his transformation and also reveals ALL his secrets and breaks down his method in easy-to-follow steps. La Ruina runs PUATraining.com, Europe's biggest seduction company and has personally trained over 800 men. People from around the world fly to London to train with him.



    Some have never had luck with women, some have come out of a long relationship, some just would like to be a bit more in control of their love life. But the result is the same - the ability to attract and seduce women.

    La Ruina outlines a learnable process that guarantees to make all men more attractive, more confident and opens the door to all the pleasure they can handle. It's tried and tested in the real world, and will work for you.

    'His lines were startlingly brilliant' - The Evening Standard

    'Richard La Ruina is now a master of the art' - The Daily Sport

    'Even Robbie Williams can't beat Richard' - The Daily Star


    The Natural Art of Seduction: Secrets of Success With Women

    Thursday 3 September 2009

    How to Start a Conversation With a Woman

    By John Alexander
    Author, "How to Become an Alpha Male"

    Last week I had the easiest pick up and lay in my life, and it all started with me walking by a random girl and saying (using a clear, resonating voice and disinterested, but relaxed and sexual body language), "Hey."

    She looked up, expecting me to say something interesting.

    My follow-up was simply, "Do you know where the smoothie place is? I'm in the mood for a smoothie."

    After that, she kept the conversation going. Simple, right?

    Here was the key: I always made sure that she was reacting to me more than I was reacting to her.

    When I first started speaking to her, I frankly couldn't care less about what she thought of me.

    My mindset was, "I'm just going through my day. But hey, if some hot chick wants to earn my attention, that's cool. If not, I'm going to enjoy my day just the same."

    I've coached a lot of guys, and the mistake I most often see a guy make when he opens a conversation with a girl is that he tries to get a response from her.

    Maybe he tries too hard to make her laugh. Or he starts asking her weird questions that he shouldn't be interested in when speaking to a total stranger (e.g., "What's you major?" or "How has your day been today?")

    This sets her up with a higher value than him.

    You see, whenever you set a girl up with a higher value than you (like when you're trying to win her approval), this causes her to lose attraction for you.

    In every conversation, there is always one person who is reacting more than the other. The person who reacts less (i.e., is the more relaxed of the two) is the more dominant, or alpha, person.

    The person trying to win the other's approval is the one who's more attracted. So a girl will struggle to make small talk and keep the conversation going as long as your value is higher than hers.

    Women are attracted to men who are a challenge for them. If at some point it becomes clear that you're trying to win her approval, then there's no longer a challenge for her and she loses interest.

    Keep the alpha status and stay in control of the situation right from the beginning. Make sure to not ever react too much to what a girl says. Always remain more relaxed than her.

    So the answer to the best way to begin a conversation with a woman is this: Don't try. Don't care what she thinks. Just say whatever you want.

    John Alexander is author of "How to Become an Alpha Male". Learn the easy way to talk to girls.

    Wednesday 26 August 2009

    How To Approach Groups Of Girls You Don't Know, And Get Them To Think You're Great!

    By Tiffany Taylor

    For this example I’m going to use women at a bar. I will be going into lots of other techniques for non-bar pickups too but for now, we’ll stick with this.

    (Note: In fact, I even recommend you try my top places for picking up that are not bars – they are WAAAAAAAY better than ANY bar and you’ll see a massive leap in your success rates with women.)

    As you know, women don’t usually go to bars on their own. They go in groups.

    Approaching GROUPS of women can be extremely daunting and if you don’t know what you’re doing, you can fail BADLY with groups and like a pack of wolves they can rip you apart. I’ve seen men get cussed at, totally ignored and even drinks poured over them.

    But if you do the approach RIGHT, then your success with a group of women can usually yield great results.

    Whenever I suggest approaching groups of women I get LOADS of guys looking at me as though I’m from another planet. I realize that lots of guys probably don’t have the initial confidence to simply walk up to beautiful women they don’t know. Don’t worry, this can be easily solved. I’ll give you some simple tips here.

    SIDE NOTE: If you have a major confidence problem then don’t worry, I have an advanced 155-page E-book called HypnoDate which almost exclusively goes into increasing your confidence with women – and it works through the power of self-reprogramming so it doesn’t matter how shy you are, this thing WILL work for you. It’s a bonus product in my site member’s area that comes with my book at no extra charge.

    INCREASING CONFIDENCE EXERCISE IN THE MALL

    Step 1. Walk around the shopping mall and when you catch a woman’s eye, smile at her – more often than not, she’ll smile back. To start with you can do this just with shop employees. Even if they don’t WANT to smile, they probably will. Good practice. And you might even brighten a few women’s lives a little.

    Step 2. Once you’ve gained confidence in making natural eye contact and a smile with staff, you could move onto other women in the mall. I’m not suggesting big weird freak smiles, just nice, natural friendly ones. A lot of women will smile back at you.

    Step 3. Here’s where it might seem a little weird, but this really does help and practice and repetition will make this lots easier. Just say “hi” with a smile to women (and men if you like) as you walk around the mall. It will feel HORRIBLE at first if you are not confident but slowly, after an hour or two, it’ll seem easy.

    After you’ve smiled and said hi to 20 or 30 women, you should start to feel good (as long as you don’t quit on your first negative response – this will happen and will happen when you’re approaching women to pick them up – you HAVE to learn to step out of your comfort zone if you want to be successful with women).

    One of my male friends did the “smile at girls in the mall” technique and he actually ended up meeting the girl of his dreams and is still with her 3 years later – how’s that for effective!

    There are loads of other techniques you can do to build your confidence, most not quite as scary as the mall one. I go into others within my book…

    Right, let’s assume you now have the confidence or at least the guts to approach women you don’t know in a bar (Again, I don’t just go into bar pickups in my book, in fact, I think the best places to pick up women are NOT in a bar – I think it’s everyday places where you’re not competing with other single guys).

    Firstly, let’s suppose two girls are sat together at a bar. One is the ‘ugly’ one and one is the hot one (the one you like the looks of and would like to get to know more).

    You see the girls. Go up to them and talk to them NOW! Don’t waste time. Within 3 seconds of seeing them, approach them. Some people call this the 3 second rule and I must say it really does seem to work.

    If you see her and like her, it’s best not to think too much about the approach, or you’re more likely to work yourself into such a state that your approach will be ineffective or you’ll just pussy out altogether!
    (Don’t worry I’ll tell you WHAT to say when you get there in a future lesson). So within 3 seconds, go TALK to her!

    ALWAYS, ALWAYS approach a woman from the side or an angle from the front. !!!NEVER from behind – IMPORTANT!!!

    If you go up to the group at the bar and approach from behind you will INSTANTLY invoke a negative response, and they will be put on the defensive - for obvious reasons. ALWAYS, ALWAYS, ALWAYS go in from the side...

    Like to learn more about how to meet, attract and seduce beautiful women?

    Wednesday 12 August 2009

    Too Ugly? Too Short? Here's How To Turn Your Flaws Into Strengths

    By John Alexander
    Author ==>> "How to Become an Alpha Male"

    Are you a guy with a high-pitched voice? Of maybe you've got a face only a mother could love?

    Well, whatever it is, if you're worried and upset about your physical flaws, which prevent you from attracting women, then I've got some good news for you.

    Not only can you eliminate those flaws, you can turn them into your advantage. I'll explain how by bringing up an example of three guys who were very successful players in their day.

    So here's a trivia question for you. What do Steve Tyler of Aerosmith, the late rapper Eazy-E, and Curly from the Three Stooges all have in common?

    The answer is they all had voices so high that if they had wanted to, they could have talked to someone on the phone and that person wouldn't have known they were speaking to a man.

    It would have been simple for all three men to have hung their heads in shame and turn into beta males who never got laid and never even could get a girl to talk to them.

    In fact, I've coached a lot of men who have limiting beliefs when it comes to things like their voice, their looks, their genetics, etc. You name the trait, and there's always somebody who uses that trait as a negative belief, which sabotages their chances at success with women.

    However, despite their high voices, Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly were all masters of a simple technique that turned that big flaw into a big trademark that made them even more attractive to women.

    It's a simple technique that I learned when I studied Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), and it will help you as tremendously as it did all three of those men.

    In order to develop the confidence of my students, I have them learn and apply this concept. The concept is called reframing.

    Here's how reframing works. Basically, you take every negative belief that you have and turn it into a positive, uplifting question. Do it like this:

    1. "I feel bad about my voice" becomes "How can I use my unique voice as my own trademark that sets me apart from other guys?" (That's what Tyler, Eazy-E, and Curly all did.)

    2. "My face is pockmarked from acne" becomes "How is my face totally awesome? How can my lack of natural good looks actually help me with women?"

    3. "I'm too short" becomes "How can I height to my advantage?"

    As you ponder your new, reframed questions in your mind, your brain will come up with answers to them.

    For example, you might find that it's to your advantage to not be a "pretty boy." Women expect good-looking guys to talk to them, so when you're displaying the confidence to talk with them, their guards will be down.

    They won't expect you to try to pick them up. That gives you a window of opportunity to display your confident, alpha male personality.

    Being short can allow you to gain rapport much easier with girls than taller guys can. Tall guys have a psychological communication barrier a lot of the time because they're literally speaking to a lot of girls (who tend on average to be shorter than guys) from a different level.

    So remember, it's not your flaws that get in your way. It's your limiting beliefs that do.

    Your ugly face doesn't get in your way of meeting women. Instead it's your belief about your face, which interferes with your inner sense of confidence. That lack of confidence is the thing that women pick up on.

    For a woman to be attracted to a guy, the man's confidence level is one of the most important traits that he can have. You can become comfortable with yourself by turning your flaws from weaknesses into traits that set you apart from the bland, ordinary guys.

    So I want you to stop reading after this, get out a pen (or open a blank document in your word processor) and write out your negative beliefs. Then write positive, uplifting questions about how to turn those flaws into good things.

    When you become happy and comfortable with all your traits, through the technique of reframing, you'll become unstoppable with your self-confidence. Gain that kind of confidence, and you'll magnetically attract girls to you.

    John Alexander is author of ==>> "How to Become an Alpha Male" ... a seduction success guide for men. Learn to develop the confidence and mindset that make women lust for you.

    Sunday 2 August 2009

    How to Seduce a Woman Using ‘Deflection Theory’ by Tiffany Taylor

    There’s something that often happens when you’re out playing the ‘seduction game’ – that is, when you’re actively looking out for girls you think you’d like to hook-up with. Many men have experienced it, and many thousands of men still do experience it when they themselves are out playing the game. It usually goes something like this: you’re in a group, talking to a couple of girls. You’re with a friend or two, perhaps having drinks in a bar or at a party. You’ve got your eye on one girl in the group in particular and want to make something happen, make a bit of a connection. Thing is, she’s proving the hardest to connect to – sure, she smiles and talks to you nicely and politely, but she’s not returning your flirtatious gestures and comments much, if at all. It’s like she’s playing hard to get or something, whereas her female friends seem to be much more playful and flirty.

    This doesn’t happen because you aren’t her type or just because sometimes these things happen (or don’t) – there’s a different, special reason the girl you’re interested in doesn’t appear to be interested in you and it’s got a lot to do with psychology and social standing. You see, when you show you’re interested in a good-looking girl who’s with her friends, you inadvertently bump up her ego and feeling of self-worth. She knows you’ve chosen and are most interested in her and likes this feeling of elevated importance. However, she also knows that if she reacts by becoming really flirty and obviously attracted to YOU, she’ll lose the higher social value she has over her friends (probably the reason you targeted her in the first place), so she therefore maintains her unattainable, “I’m a bit too good for you” status.

    However, you can blow this problem out of the water by using DEFLECTION THEORY. You turn the situation on its head and reverse the psychology of your target female by deflecting your attention AWAY from her and ONTO one or more of her friends. When you show her friends (who have lower social value/worth than your target female) more attention and affection, you challenge her ego. So, in an effort to regain her superiority in the hierarchy of her circle of friends, the girl you’re really interested in will subconsciously invest much MORE interest in you by flirting and being playful. As so many women do, she gives into wanting what she feels she cannot have – and, of course, you’ll be happy to have her. She is, after all, the hottest of the group and the one you wanted in the first place. Here’s how to deflect your attention onto one of her friends to make her (the girl you want) feel as if her ego has been challenged and thus make her feel an instant and undeniable desire to get your attention and “win” you back.

    1. Use strong eye contact when talking to all of the girls. However, when you’re talking to your target female, occasionally glance away and towards one of the other girls (who will probably be talking amongst themselves or to your friend/friends if you’re with any) and give a slight smile before looking back at your target. This jackhammers a sense of competition into the subconscious mind of the girl you’re really interested in and immediately makes her want to fight for your attention.

    2. Casually make physical contact with her friends more than her. For example, touch them on the side of their arm to get their attention or when laughing and joking.

    3. When sitting down or standing around talking as a group, face slightly more (as in, the direction of your body/torso) in the direction of one of her friends more than her.

    Using deflection theory to challenge a girl you’re interested in’s ego and therefore make her want you more is just one psychological technique you can use to boost your pick-up game. Combine it with others and you maximize your success with the opposite sex in ways most men have and never will experience. You can be the guy that gets the girl!

    Want more information from Tiffany Taylor about==>> how to attract and seduce women <<==with the GuyGetsGirl system?

    Tuesday 28 July 2009

    How to Pick Up Girls: The Power of ‘Yes’

    Everyone, male or female, feels an important need to be consistent in the things they say, do and feel. If we’re flaky and liable to change at the drop of a hat what we believe or have promised, we know that people are likely to judge and mistrust us. This commonly felt sense of importance regarding the need to be consistent within ourselves can be exploited when attempting to seduce a woman. One seduction technique that makes use of this concept is called ‘The Power of Yes’.

    Here’s a common scenario most men have experienced at some point or another in their lives. You find yourself talking to a girl, maybe you approached her and consciously started a conversion, or perhaps the chat began unplanned, naturally. Either way, you’re enjoying each other’s company. After a while, it dawns on you that you and the girl you’re talking to are going to have to go your separate ways pretty soon, which poses a slight dilemma: how can you make it so this isn’t the first and last time you two are together and instead arrange for it to progress into something further? The obvious route to take is to perform a ‘closer’.

    A closer is when you make a conscious effort to get a girl’s number, swap both your numbers, arrange to meet up again soon, or otherwise cross that social “getting to know you” line. Thing is, you don’t want your closer to crash and burn, you want the girl to happily agree to whatever it is you suggest. So how can help ensure that happens? You use psychology, specifically, ‘The Power of Yes’ technique. The technique involves getting the girl you’re interacting with to give several positive ‘yes’ responses to your questions in quick succession. Doing so helps develop an internal sense of positivity in the female that carries over in her mind to when you perform the actual closer and tips the balance in the direction of agreement to your request or suggestion.

    You can do this by using subtle and casual responses after she says things, like: “Really?” and “Do you?” Match your response to what she’s just said and ensure it takes the form of a question that you’re sure will prompt a ‘yes’ response from her. Getting between 3 and 6 of these positive responses is usually enough to allow the principle to work.

    At the same time, avoid asking questions or saying things near the end of your conversation, just before you’re about to close, that could possibly evoke negative reactions or “no” responses from the female.

    The reason this technique works so well is because of the natural human phenomenon mentioned at the start of this article – that people feel it’s important to be consistent and congruent in the things they say and the situation they’re in. After responding to you positively half a dozen times, a natural inclination is created in the female’s mind for saying ‘yes’ – she’s gotten used to it. When you finally suggest going for a bite to eat tomorrow or visiting that museum together you told her about, the most natural and consistent response in her mind is a responding “Yes!”…it just feels right.

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    Friday 17 July 2009

    Guys: Body Language Basics For Seducing Women

    Guys: Body Language Basics For Seducing Women
    By Tiffany Taylor

    Body language is VERY important. According to studies carried out over 50% of your communication comes from your body language – what you DON’T say and less then 8% of your communication comes from what you DO say.

    What does this mean to you?

    It is MORE important to pay careful attention to HOW you say things, and HOW you stand and HOW you act than it is to WHAT you say (at least initially).

    You see, you could have the BEST game in the world and be able to really get any woman to like you loads, for example online, but if you used those same successful techniques in the real world and lacked obvious confidence, lacked eye contact etc – You would simply CRASH and BURN.

    Honestly, body language is SOOOO important in attracting women. Later in the course we’ll go into how you can use the female’s body language to READ her mind and know what she’s thinking. This article is about YOUR body language.

    Ok… So, I’ll cover the basics as the advanced stuff is beyond the scope of this article (if you want more advanced detail concerning body language you can check out my site: guygetsgirl.com).

    Body language basics:

    1. Smile

    You have to make the female feel at ease and comfortable that you are a friendly and fun guy and you are not a psycho as quick as possible. Especially when talking to her for the first time. You also need to let her know that you are confident and comfortable around women. A big and genuine smile is the best way to do this. It works. In fact, if you ever get an Ice Queen that you can tell is about to give you the “dead eye”, give her a big smile. Practice smiling at random people. You’ll be surprised by how many people smile back and at how many doors open to you. Smiling WORKS. Just don’t make it a cheesy, fake smile ;)

    2. Eye contact

    As you know there’s nothing worse than staring at a woman’s chest – or even looking. It makes you just like all the other guys who drool over her. If anything you should use all your skill to NOT look at her chest – she’ll wonder why her womanly powers don’t work with you and she’ll seek your attention and subconsciously TRY to get you to look!

    When talking to her, try to maintain eye contact. Not too much because it can be intimidating, but if you aim to have eye contact with her around 70% of the time you are talking, this should be comfortable for most women. Don’t stare like a crazy man, just be natural but if you naturally look away or are slightly shy when it comes to eye contact, make a conscious effort to have a little more. Eye contact can make serious connections within people. They say the eyes are a window to the soul and I think there may be some truth to that. There are even speed dating type events being run that involve just staring into each others eyes – and from what I hear, they are pretty successful.

    Maintain eye contact. Not too much, about 70% of conversation time. Be natural.

    3. Upright posture

    Guys can get away with a bit of a hunch, but women really do prefer men with straight, upright postures. Look at all the big film actors like Pitt, Cruise etc. They all have good posture. It says to a woman you are confident, healthy, and strong (at least in mind). It’s just generally more attractive and says lots about who you are. Plus it’s good for your back and will help strengthen your back muscles making it easier to maintain.

    Get into the HABIT of having an upright posture.

    4. Gesticulate with open palms

    You will not hear this tip anywhere else (or if you do, it was almost certainly copied from this course).

    I’ve gone into in depth studies of body language and this one is a good one to use in MANY circumstances – I’ve adapted it here after solid testing to picking up women – however, some people suggest that when combined with a few other verbal and non-verbal techniques it can even give you a 50/50 chance of getting out of speeding fines!

    Anyway, basically, when you are talking to a woman and trying to make a point (that puts you in a positive light) or defend yourself (for example, a girl suggests you might be a player) you talk and using your hands you have open palms facing upwards. Keep your arms in front of your body with your palms facing the sky and smile as you talk.

    It works VERY well on a subconscious level to suggest you are being honest and telling the truth. And if you want a woman to begin to trust you, making her think you are being straight with her, is important.

    This open palm gesticulation MUST be combined with a smile to work effectively.

    Those are the basics of body language, if you'd like to learn more visit Tiffany Taylor's site by ==> clicking here

    Monday 13 July 2009

    How I Got Six Pack Abs The First Time

    Running to Lose Weight??
    How I Got Six Pack Abs The First Time

    By Tom Venuto, NCSA-CPT, CSCS


    Six Pack Abs For Sure!

    I’ll never forget the very first time I got ripped, how I did it and how it felt. I’ve never told this entire story before or widely published my early photos either. Winning first place and seeing my abs the first time was sweet redemption. But before that, it was a story of desperation…

    I started lifting weights for bodybuilding when I was 14 years old, but I never had ripped abs until I was 20. I endured six years of frustration and embarrassment. Being a teenager is hard enough, but imagine how I felt being a self-proclaimed bodybuilder, with no abs or muscle definition to show for it. Imagine what it was like in swimming class or when we played basketball in gym class and I prayed to be called out for “shirts” and not ‘”skins” because I didn’t want any one seeing my “man-boobs” and ab flab jiggling all over the court.

    Oh, I had muscle. I started gaining muscle from the moment I picked up a barbell. I got strong too. I was benching 315 at age 18. But even after four years of successful strength training, I still hadn’t figured out this getting ripped thing. Muscle isn’t very attractive if it’s covered up with a layer of fat. That’s where the phrase “bulky” really comes from – fat on top of muscle. It can look worse than just fat.

    I read every book. I read every magazine. I tried every exercise. I took every supplement in vogue back in the 80’s (remember bee pollen, octacosanol, lipotropics and dessicated liver?) I tried not eating for entire days at a time. I went on a rope skipping kick. I did hundreds of crunches and ab exercises. I rode the Lifecycle. I wore rubber waist belts.

    The results were mediocre at best. When I made progress, I couldn’t maintain it. One step forward, one step back. Even when I got a little leaner, it wasn’t all the way. Still no ripped abs. When I played football and they beat the crap out of us at training camp, I lost weight, but STILL didn’t get all the way down to those elusive six pack abs. In fact, it was almost like I got “skinny fat.” My arms and legs lost some muscle but the small roll of ab fat was still there.

    Why was it so hard? What was I doing wrong? It was driving me crazy!

    My condition got worse in college because I mixed with a party crowd. With boozing came eating, and the “bulk” accumulated even more. At that point, the partying and social life were more important to me than my body. I was still lifting weights, but wasn’t living a fitness lifestyle.

    Mid way through college I changed my major from business management to exercise science, having made up my mind to pursue a career in fitness. That’s when I started to feel something wasn’t right. The best word for it is “incongruence.” That’s when what you say you want to be and what you really are don’t match. Being a fitness professional means you have to walk the talk and be a role model to others. Anything else is hypocrisy. I knew I had to shape up or forget fitness as a career.

    But after four years, I STILL didn’t know how to get ripped! Nothing I learned in exercise physiology class helped. All the theory was interesting, but when theory hit the real world, things didn’t always work out like they did on paper. My professors didn’t know either. Heck, most of them weren’t even in shape! Two of them were overweight, including my nutrition professor.

    However, out of my college experience did come the seeds of the solution and my first breakthrough.

    In one of my physical education classes, we were required to do some running and we were instructed to keep track of our performance and resting heart rates. Somehow, even though I was a strength athlete, I got hooked on running. After the initial discomfort of hauling around a not so cardio-fit 205 pound body, I started to get a lot of satisfaction out of watching my resting heart rate drop from the 70’s into the 50’s and seeing my running times get better and better. And then it happened: I started getting leaner than I ever had before.

    The results motivated me to no end, and I kept after it even more. My runs would be 5 or 6 days a week and I’d go for between 30 minutes to an hour. Sometimes I had a circular route of about 6 miles and I would run it for time, almost always pushing for a personal record. When I finished, I was spent, drenched in sweat and sometimes just crashing when I got home. And I kept getting even leaner.

    That’s when I started to figure it out. If you’re expecting me to say that running is the secret, no, that’s NOT it per se. I was thinking bigger picture. In fact, I noticed that my legs had lost some muscle size, so I knew that over-doing the runs would be counter productive, ultimately, and I don’t run that much anymore these days. But that’s how I did it the first time and I had never experienced fat loss like that before. The fat was falling off and I had barely changed my diet.

    My “aha moment” was when I realized the pivotal piece in the puzzle was calories. It wasn’t the type of exercise, it wasn’t the specific foods and it wasn’t supplements. Today I realize that it’s the calorie deficit that matters the most, not whether you eat less or burn more per se, but in my case creating a large deficit by burning the calories was the absolute key for me.

    These runs were burning an enormous number of calories. Everything I had done before wasn’t burning enough to make a noticeable difference in a short period of time. 10-15 minutes of rope skipping wasn’t enough. 45 minutes of slow-go bike riding wasn’t burning enough. Hundreds of crunches weren’t enough. I put 1+1+1 together and realized it was intensity X duration X frequency = highest the total calorie burn for the week. How much simpler could it be? It wasn’t magic. It was MATH!

    It was consistency too. This was the first time in SIX YEARS I stuck with it. Body fat comes off by the grams every day – literally. Kilos and pounds of body weight may come off quickly, but they come back just as fast. Body fat comes off slowly and if you have no patience or you jump to one program to the next without following through with the one you started, you’re doomed. In six years, I had “tried everything”… except consistency and patience.

    Then the stakes went up. I had finally gotten lean, but there was another level beyond lean… RIPPED! My buddies at the gym noticed me getting leaner and then they popped the question: Why don’t you compete? My training partner Steve had already competed 3 years earlier and won the Teenage Mr. America competition. Since then, I had been all talk and no walk. “Yeah, I’m going to compete one of these days too… I’m going to be the next Mr. America.” Days turned into weeks, weeks into months, and months into years. The only title I had won was “Mr. Procastinator.” Then finally, Steve and my other friends challenged me almost in an ultimatum type of way. Well, the truth is, I set myself up for it with my big mouth and they called me out, so I would have been the laughing stock of our gym if I didn’t follow through.

    The first time you do a real cut - all the way down to contest-ready - is the hardest. Not as much physically as psychologically, simply because you’ve never done it before. Doing something you’ve done before is no big deal. Doing something you’ve never done before causes uncertainty and fear, sometimes even terror! I was plagued with self-doubt the entire time, never sure if I was ever going to get there. It seemed like it was taking forever. But failure was not an option. Not only did I have an entire gym full of friends rooting me on, I had great training partner who was natural Mr. Teenage America! The pressure was on. I had to do it. There was no way out. No excuses.

    Some other day, I’ll tell you all the details of the emotional roller coaster ride that was my first contest diet, but let it suffice to say, at that point, I still didn’t know what I was doing. It was only later that I went into “human guinea pig” mode with nutritional experiments and finally pinned down the eating side of the equation to a science (and gained 20 lbs of stage-weight muscle as a result).

    In the late 1980’s, the standard bodybuilding diet was high carb, low fat. For that first competition, I was on 60% carbs – including pancakes, boxed cereal, whole grain bread, and pasta - so I guess you can toss out the idea that it’s impossible to get ripped on high carbs – although high carb is NOT the contest diet I use today. But it didn’t matter, because I had already learned the critical piece in the fat loss puzzle – the calorie balance equation. Understanding that one aspect of physiology was enough to get me ripped. It only got better later.

    In the end, I took 2nd place at my very first competition, the Natural Lehigh Valley, and one month later, I won first place at the Natural New Jersey. Seven months later, the overall Natural Pennsylvania.

    Looking back, was all the effort worth it? Well, my good friend Adam Waters, who is an accountability coach, teaches his students about using “redemption” as a motivator. Remember the Charles Atlas ad where the skinny kid got sand kicked in his face and then came back big and buffed and beat up the bully? That’s redemption. Or the dateless high school nerd who comes back to the 10 year class reunion driving a Mercedes with the prom queen on his arm? That’s redemption.

    After all the doubt, heartache and frustration I went through for six years, I not only had my trophies, my abs were on the front page of the sports section in our small Pennsylvania town newspaper. The following year, I was on the poster for a bodybuilding competition… as the previous year’s champion. THAT’S REDEMPTION. You tell me if it was worth it.

    There are 7 lessons from my story that I want to share with you because even if you have a different personal history than I do, these 7 lessons are the keys to achieving any previously elusive fitness goal for the first time and I think they apply to everyone.

    1. Set the big goal and go for it. If your goal doesn’t excite you and scare you at the same time, your goal is too small. If you don’t feel fear or uncertainty, you’re inside your comfort zone. Puny goals aren’t motivating. Sometimes it takes a competition or a big challenge of some kind to get your blood boiling.

    2. Align your values with your goals. I understood my values and made a decision to be congruent with who I really was and who I wanted to be. When you know your values, get your priorities straight and align your goals with your values, then doing what it takes is easy.

    3. Do the math. Stop looking for magic. A lean body does not come from any particular type of exercise or foods per se, it’s the calories burned vs calories consumed that determines fat loss or fat gain. You might do better by decreasing the calories consumed, whereas I depended more on increasing the calories burned, but either way, it’s still a math equation. Deny it at your own risk.

    4. Get social support. Support and encouragement from your friends can help get you through anything. Real time accountability to a training partner or trainer can make all the difference.

    5. Be consistent. Nothing will ever work if you don’t work at it every day. Sporadic efforts don’t just produce sporadic results, sometimes they produce zero results.

    6. Persist through difficulty and self doubt. If you think it’s going to be smooth sailing all the way with no ups and downs, you’re fooling yourself.. For every sunny day, there’s going to be a storm. If you can’t weather the storms, you’ll never reach new shores.

    7. Redeem yourself. Non-achievers sit on the couch and wallow in past failures. Winners use past failures as motivational rocket fuel. It always feels good to achieve a goal, but nothing feels as good as achieving a goal with redemption.

    Postscript: My journey continued. Since that initial first place trophy, I have competed as a natural for life bodybuilder 26 more times, including 7 first place awards and 7 runner up awards. And yes, I finally nailed down the nutrition side of things too. You can read more about that and the fat loss program that developed as a result at www.burnthefat.com

    Tom Venuto Newspaper Photo

    Train hard and expect success,

    Tom Venuto
    Fat Loss Coach
    www.BurnTheFat.com

    Wednesday 8 July 2009

    How to give any woman an orgasm…every time!

    How to give any woman an orgasm…every time!

    It’s like the Holy Grail for men – making a female reach orgasm when we sleep with them is of the utmost importance to us men and often our number one priority, even outranking our own sexual needs. But why is making a woman cum so high on our to-do lists when we’re in the sack and, once you know it’s something you’d like to be able to do, how do you give a woman an orgasm each and every time? Is there a special technique, a magic touch, or is it in the lap of the Gods whether or not she makes that elusive “O” face (and actually means it!)

    Before we get into the techniques - the science behind female sexual gratification - let’s first have a quick look at the subject of orgasms as a whole.

    The male climax, which combines ejaculation with an orgasm, is – unless a guy has got something pretty seriously wrong with him – a foregone conclusion in sex. We guys know that when we cum it’s usually end game for us, so we tend to use our orgasms as a marker – the amount of time that elapses between first insertion to final climax constitutes our sexual performance, good or bad. Whether we last as long as we’d like, or do all the things we’d love to do, we’re always guaranteed that predictable pay-off at the end of it all. Women, on the other hand – and somewhat unsurprisingly – are totally different. Whether they achieve an orgasm is entirely dependant on a host of requirements, including but not limited to: the guy’s sexual ability, the female’s knowledge of how her body works, and her mood at the time of sex. Then there’s the added headache (for us!) of women faking orgasms just to please us and keep our egos in check. All combined, giving a girl an orgasm - and realising that we have - is usually a tricky business for most guys. But there ARE things you can do to ensure you stand the absolute best chance of bringing your partner or partners to the highest possible point of sexual pleasure. These are concepts most men never hear of or, if they do, never try – because, to be honest, if they did give them a whirl, the female orgasm really wouldn’t be such an elusive, unattainable thing. Here they are: the techniques and strategies you should use to give a woman an orgasm…every time.

    1. PROPER BUILD-UP. Sexual satisfaction and stimulation happens in two different ways: in the mind, and in the body. Many men forget about this balance of the mental and physical, and rush into penetrative sex too quickly, with too much pace. Instead you need to start slow and gradually intensify the attention you give the girl and the actions you perform. So, begin intercourse with slow strokes that vary in depth and angle. Doing this does two things. First, it warms the woman up physically and allows her body to fully accept and accommodate you. Second, it gives you a vital opportunity to watch for what type of stroke speed, depth and angle stimulates the girl the most and pleasures her to the highest degree. Listen to her moans, watch her eyes and try to sense her excitement levels as you vary your technique.

    2. DISPLAY YOUR FOCUS. Don’t be afraid to make it obvious that your main goal is pleasuring her as much as you possibly can. Many men feel as if it makes them seem soppy or subordinate to display a desire to only pleasure the female and forget about themselves, but this is a mistake. When you show how much you care about showing her a good time, you achieve three things. First, you turn her on emotionally and mentally (which, as I just mentioned, is vital). Second, you open up healthy communication between the two of you – she can verbally tell you what feels the best and where you should focus. The third reason is the simplest of all: the more you focus your attention on something, the more likely you are to achieve your goal.

    3. DOUBLE STIMULATION. Most women achieve their orgasms from external, clitoral stimulation and not penetrative, vaginal sex. So, focus plenty of attention on pleasuring her with your fingers or orally AND giving her external gratification (such as rubbing her clit lightly in a circular motion with the tips of your index, middle and ring fingers) while partaking in actual intercourse. This more than doubles the chance of reaching orgasm.

    It’s important we sum up what we’ve just been over – doing so locks the information in your head and makes it easy for you to use it next time you ‘get it on’. First, take it slow and watch for her reactions. When you see her react strongly and positively, remember what action or stroke type or sex position you used. SHOW HER you care about making her feel good. Not only does it make her feel turned on but also automatically more willing and eager to return the favour…in spades! Lastly, vary the action. Mix up intercourse with external stimulation to really boost her pleasure. If you do everything you’ve read here, you’re guaranteed to improve your sex life and the number of orgasms your girl has in it. So give it a go!

    W. Wilcox is the expert author of==>> Orgasmology <<== an online guide that coaches men on the special techniques that make up the science of explosive sex and multiple orgasms.

    Sunday 7 June 2009

    Choosing A Gym - 10 Things To Look Out For

    Choosing A Gym - 10 Things To Look Out For

    Guest Post By Vince DelMonte

    Now that you've made the commitment to starting a workout program, the next step is choosing a gym that you will feel comfortable going to on a regular basis. If it isn't, chances are you aren't going to stick with any type of regular plan and will eventually just stop going altogether. By being sure your gym is a good fit for you, you help take yourself one step further to realizing your health and fitness goals.

    Keep in mind that if a traditional gym isn’t for you, you can definitely set up a home gym where you can get complete workouts all in the privacy of where you live. There are a number of home gym systems out there that include all the equipment you need to perform all the key lifts that should be included in any workout program.

    1. Location

    Who really wants to spend twice as long driving to and from their gym as it takes them to do their workout? After a long day of work you are not going to want to spend a good hour fighting traffic, another hour working out, and then another half an hour driving home. Think about either choosing a gym that is located close to your house or else on the drive to or from work. This is a great option since if you have to pass by it every day, you’ll be reminded of the fact that you should be working out if you choose to skip it.

    2. Membership Cost

    Gym memberships can really vary in costs so it’s a good idea to shop around before making that final commitment. Also consider how long you are signing the contract for as this can vary too. Many gyms like to rope you in for years and if you aren’t quite sure it’s going to be a long-term arrangement, you’re better off finding something that is more short-term.

    Additionally, if you can wait until around late summer or New Year to sign up, you will find that often many gyms will have special promotions going on at this time.

    3. Membership Demographic

    Another factor to consider is the membership demographic that goes to the gym. Some women will prefer going to an all-ladies gym as it increases their comfort factor. For others, a mixed gym is the perfect solution because half of the reason they go there is to socialize and perhaps even find a date.

    Whatever your needs, make sure you enquire about this and take it into consideration.

    4. Additional Benefits

    You will want to ask if the gym offers any additional services or benefits along with your basic membership and if there is a fee for these. Such examples would be daycare services, physiotherapy, massage therapy, nutritional counselling, and fitness testing.

    5. Operating Hours

    Always be sure to check the hours of operation of the gym. If you are an early morning exerciser you will want to be sure they are able to cater to this preference. Additionally ask about their holiday policies. Many people enjoy working out on the holidays because it is a relaxed day for them when they can really get in a good workout. If you are looking forward to this and then go and find out the gym is closed, you are going to be more than disappointed. Similarly there are some people who prefer working out late at night so you need to be sure that if this is the case you will be able to do that.

    6. Personal Training Services

    Having some good, qualified personal trainers on hand is critical to helping you realize your full fitness potential. Even if you are fine with your program right now, consider that in a year down the road you might be plateauing and in need of a ‘check-up’ so to speak on your current regime.

    Having the option available of knowledge staff cannot be stressed enough. Unfortunately many gyms hire almost anyone who has a basic interest in fitness, so be sure to enquire about the actual certifications these trainers hold.

    7. Group Fitness Classes

    Be sure to ask about all the various group fitness classes that are offered at the gym you are considering. Often, when boredom kicks in on your workout plan, this is just the thing to get you going again.

    These days there are currently thousands of different fitness class styles available, so there is sure to be something that suites your interest.

    When checking up on this, again inquire if there are any additional fees associated with it so you are prepared for when you go to sign up.

    8. Cleanliness

    One very important factor you want to look for is the cleanliness of the gym. You do not want to be working out on equipment that is not clean as gyms are a place where germs can be in high concentration. Also make sure they have towels and spray bottles in various places around the gym to clean up after workouts, and have a look at the bathrooms and change rooms to make sure they are up to your standards.

    9. Type/Quality Of Equipment

    Looking at the type and quality of the equipment offered in the gym is another thing you must factor in. If you prefer free weights, make sure there is a large number of dumbbells present because during rush hours, these could be hard to come by.

    Likewise, if you prefer doing your weight training on guided machines, you’ll want to be sure they have enough variety that you can work all the necessary muscles on your body. If you find yourself doing a lot of cardio training as part of your workouts you will want to be sure there are ample machines available.

    Nothing is more frustrating than getting to the gym after work to find out that there is not a single machine in sight available for you to use. Ask if they offer a sign-up list where you can write your name and time down to reserve a machine. This is a great solution that many gyms have now come up with to make sure their members can get their workouts in.

    10. Cancellation Policy

    Finally take a look at the gym's cancellation policy. If you sign up for a 3 year membership and then end up moving after a year due to work, are you going to be partially refunded? It will be a bad situation if they offer no refund or transfer membership.

    Some gyms are good about this and some are not so you will have to weigh the likelihood of your cancelling among other things that are discussed above when making your decision.

    So, be sure you are considering all of these essential factors when choosing gym. Overlooking just one could lead you to being less than happy with your workout facility and this could end up being the reason why you do not stick with your program.

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